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March 22nd, 2010 | Author: Pencil Bugs

Do you think J.K. Rowling writes her stories and no one else edits or proofs them before they’re published?  I don’t think so.  So why do people think they should write blogs or school reports or anything else for that matter without having at least one other person proof their work?

Whether you’re blogging for your business or just for fun, at least show the world that you know how to spell correctly and use proper grammar.   

I’m lucky that I have my mom to proofread and edit my writing.  Even with school papers, she looks them over because most teachers don’t take time to even check for spelling or grammar.  And if kids turn in assignments they think are correct and no one ever shows them how to improve, what good was the assignment in the first place?  Mom also reads every blog, letter, email, and basically all other business things that I write.   At 14, I still have a lot to learn but at least I can present my business in the most professional way possible.

So maybe your mom or dad isn’t the best at writing, editing or even proofreading.  Find someone that is and ask them to at least proof for spelling and grammar errors BEFORE you post your mistakes for the world to see.  This doesn’t apply just to kids either. I have read many things online that are the most basic mistakes and it doesn’t make the person look too good.

If you absolutely can’t find anyone to help out, at least go back and read it yourself.  It’s easy to skip over your mistakes because you know what you already wrote and what you meant to say but reading it out loud, very . . .  slowly, word . . .  for . . .  word, will help you find your mistakes.

One of the most common mistakes people make, and I see it on Twitter all the time, is the difference between YOUR and YOU’RE.  Those are two totally different words and meanings.  If there is an apostrophe, it is actually two words combined. 

Your the best is WRONG.

You’re the best is CORRECT because it actually means You are.

People form opinions and first impressions for a lot of different reasons.  If avoiding simple spelling and grammar mistakes when you write can make a better impression, wouldn’t you want to do everything you could to improve?

Thanks Mom. :)

February 03rd, 2010 | Author: Pencil Bugs

Recently, I read the book “Gathering Blue” by Lois Lowry.  It is part of a trilogy which I really got into.  ”Take pride in your pain because you will be stronger than those who don’t” was one quote from the book that really stuck with me.

Pain is usually thought of as a bad thing;  an experience that people don’t want to have to go through.   However, the quote from Gathering Blue tells us that pain can help in many ways.  Pain hurts us now but will make us more prepared for the future.  Just having the pain is not enough. You actually need to get in the mindset of taking pride in your pain.  It may sound a little weird. I know it did to me at first but pride is what helps you learn from your pain and gives you the ability to move on.

People who don’t recognize this put themselves on a  pedestal because they think they are better than everyone else.  It is similar to accepting defeat or quitting an argument.  Don’t pride yourself in winning but be proud of being a big enough person to accept defeat.  You can’t win all of the time and no one is right all of the time either.

Whether it’s a business situation or a personal one, take pride in your pain, struggles, challenges, and losses.  It’s what helps us deal with the tough things in life and teaches us that we are usually stronger than we give ourselves credit for.

January 22nd, 2010 | Author: Pencil Bugs

These tips are good for personal as well as business. Aside from the photos which are pretty funny, the advice is basic common sense. Share this post with friends, family, and business contacts. More common sense once in awhile doesn’t hurt anyone. Here’s to a great 2010!

1. Stay out of trouble.

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2. Aim for greater heights.

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3. Stay focused on your job.

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4. Exercise to maintain good health.

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5. Practice team work.

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6. Rely on your trusted partner to watch your back. Take your time trusting others.

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7. Save for rainy days.

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8. Rest and relax.

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9. Always take time to smile.

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AND . . .

10. Realize that nothing is impossible.

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January 11th, 2010 | Author: Pencil Bugs

2010animatedBy now, I bet many people have already broken their New Year’s resolutions, especially the ones you hear the most like losing weight, quiting smoking, or exercising more.

Kids usually don’t make resolutions.  My guess is that most don’t think that far ahead or some probably think they don’t need to change anything. But when you think about it, why make resolutions anyway?

Does a new year really make a difference in the way people think? If a person was not exercising last year, will they really do what it takes to change things this year?

I think when people declare their resolutions, it’s actually more of a negative than a positive. For the majority that break them, those people probably feel pretty bad like they failed.

The better way might be to just keep working at what you want to change without announcing this big resolution. If one day you mess up, give yourself a kick in the pants and just try harder the next day but keep moving forward.

January 05th, 2010 | Author: Pencil Bugs

My 12 Days of Christmas Trivia has come to an end.  I’ve had a lot of fun finding little-known facts and trivia about Christmas.  I hope you had fun reading them too.

christmas-foodThis last bit of Christmas trivia is good to remember all year long since it is health-related.  It is estimated that 400,000 people become sick each year from eating tainted Christmas leftovers.  I read this on several websites but couldn’t find the actual source to verify it but if you’re like most families, there was lots of food set out during the holidays.  Everyone seems to take more time eating holiday meals than regular meals any other day of the year so food sits on the table or counter a lot longer. Then there are the people who like to keep eating all day long so some munchies sit out for hours.  But how long should food be left out before it starts to go bad?

This ABC News/Health story explains how to tell if food has gone bad and how long you should keep leftovers.  It’s good to remember all year long, not just during the holidays.

My parents have a saying, “When in doubt, throw it out” because it’s better to be safe than sorry.  And who would want to get sick between Christmas and New Years just because you ate some bad leftovers or food that set out too long?  Even your favorite leftover turkey or stuffing wouldn’t be worth it.  And if you’re not sure if it’s spoiled or not, please don’t feed it to your pets either.

Happy New Year to everyone!  Eat healthy!

If you missed any of my 12 Days of Christmas Trivia, just scroll down to read the rest.